My rant about Father's Day
Three years ago I saw something disturbing and that is Hallmark made Father’s day cards for Mother’s. I am not kidding about that, I posted one them above this post. These cards are mainly for Black mothers, they clearly don’t have a problem with it because I haven’t seen any news report were there outrage with Hallmark for making these cards. So let me get this straight y’all want to be honored for not picking the right man to be your kids father, that’s what y’all are doing. I don’t get it why do women associate themselves with guy things? If a Caucasian women get tattoos she’s called a biker chick, but a Black woman is still considered a queen no matter what she do. How many times do I have to tell you Ladies you can’t be both a mother and a Father to your kids, it’s not possible. Heck y’all are not doing a good job a being both Mother and Father, I mean look at the stats 78% of men that are in jail are from a single parent household. You know what a woman having kids without a man around should be consider child neglected, I mean it’s not fair that’s kids have to grow up with no father around. Who is going to warn your son about the disadvantages he is going to have for being a man, heck being raises in a single parent household is a disadvantage. Also why should we feel sorry for single mother for choosing to be single? I hear single mother’s complaining about how hard it is to do everything on their own, again why should we feel sorry for y’all? You made your bed now sleep in it. Another thing if you keep the father away from his kids and your kids are giving you grief I don’t feel sorry for you, I see that as karma what made you think you can remove the man from the family not expect anything in return?
Bottom line is kids need their fathers just as much as the mother, it’s sad that Fathers don’t get honored as much as the mothers. The only reason women have that I raises my kids by myself mentality is because they got assists. If you didn't pick the right guy to be a father then at least get a mentor for your sons. You know what I’m going to give y’all one reason why it’s important that kids should be around there Father that reason is love, men love differently than women. Another reason is identity, how can a child know or learn about himself if he or her doesn’t know there history? How can someone know there history if they don’t know there family?